
When we started in our first job, we thought that we will have to work certain hours a day and will be paid a certain amount for that. Later sometimes, the work would not finish in those hours and we would stay longer. Which is fine once in a while, but this once in a while starts happening once too often. Initially, we question it… we are not being paid extra for this… we have people waiting at home… nobody recognizes it here so why do I put in extra… and other excuses to push off the load… but that doesn’t work and we soon get used to working late… getting work home… taking official calls at unearthly hours… working on weekends and so on. Once in a while we do ask …. where is my me-time… whatever happened to work life balance… when did I take my last long holiday… but get no straight answers and move on…
Work is one situation. There can be many… may be relationships, may be habits… or our dud investments in the market and all such situations, which we want to get away from, but can not because the situation gets better of us. The reason why we got into it in the first place is no more relevant after a point.
Today’s story touches upon the same feeling. It doesn’t offer a solution but hopefully, it will help you relate and introspect.
There was a Gurukul (Traditional Hindu convent school of the old world) in the ancient city of Rishikesh. Rishikesh is a very old city in the foothills of Himalayas on the banks of the holy river Ganga. It is famous even today for its traditional schools of Yoga, Ayurveda and other Indian streams of ancient knowledge
One day, two young students of our Gurukul were strolling at the banks of the river Ganga on their way back from the early morning class when one of them spotted what looked like a thick blanket floating in the river. He showed this to his friend and suggested… that if they could get hold of this blanket, it could be used as some protection against the biting cold winter that is characteristic of the Himalayan weather. The friend liked the idea and jumped into the river to get it.
As he approached the blanket and grabbed it, he realized that it was actually a Himalayan black bear which had fallen into the river somewhere on the higher ridges. The poor beast had given himself to his fate but was not dead yet. As this brahmachari (student of the gurukul) grabbed it, the life force in the bear thought that this is something to catch hold of and survive by, and it grabbed the brahmachari with much stronger force.
When his friend saw the brahmachari flowing in the river with the blanket, he shouted from the bank… “LEAVE THE BLANKET AND COME BACK HERE”
Last words of the brahmachari were: “ I HAVE ALREADY LEFT THE BLANKET BROTHER… IT’S NOW THE BLANKET WHICH IS NOT LEAVING ME”…
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Got the idea here!!! I hope you did…
